Interracial marriage, a fairly new concept, has been increasing throughout
the United States. The law forbidding interracial marriage was terminated
in 1967, and as a result, since 1970 to 1993, interracial marriages have
increased from 310,000 to 1,161,000. Statistically speaking, interracial
unions have expanded from .7 percent of all marriages in 1970 to 2.2 percent
in 1992 (Qian, 1999).
Interracial relationships and marriage is a very important concept to study
due to the large increase in the number of these marriages in the United
States. Many positive and negative factors contribute to interracial
marriage including acceptance within each race, and family acceptance.
Before one can consider this type of relationship, these factors as well
as other statistical information concerning this topic should be understood.
Despite the recent growth in interracial marriages, many negative attitudes
still control this type of union, and as a result, this topic becomes very
difficult to discuss.
Viewing and understanding the statistics among marriage in general and
interracial marriage will help adolescents and adults with the transition
into this type of relationship. Furthermore, an open mind and knowledge
about this subject will also contribute to an easy transition.
Marital Status of the
Population
According
to the U.S. Bureau of the Census, in 1998, 58,633 (numbers in thousands)
men of all races were married. From this total, 51,299 of the men
were white, and 4,675 were black. In comparison, there were 59,333
women of all races married in 1998, 51,410 being white and 4,983 being
black. Moreover, the men and women accounted for were aged fifteen
years and above, and this information only included men and women who were
at that time married, not divorced or widowed.
In 1998, the
average age for men of all races to marry was 26.7, as compared to a mean
age of 25 for women. These ages have remained fairly consistent throughout
the eighties and nineties for both men and women. However, due to
the changing times and greater opportunities for men and women, the average
age of marriage has shown an increase from the early 1900's. This
is not a surprising finding since the roles of men and women have changed
and most people feel they do not have to marry to obtain true success and
happiness (U.S. Bureau of the Census, 1998).
Marital Status of Interracial
Couples
According
to the U.S. Bureau of the Census, in1998, 2.4 percent of all married couples
were interracial. This figure does not differ significantly from
1990, in which 1.8 percent of all married couples were interracial.
Moreover, 1.3 percent of marriages were interracial unions in 1980.
These increases, although not high, do represent a significant finding
that interracial marriages, in time, will be more acceptable in society.
The U.S. Bureau
of the Census also indicated in 1998, 24.5 percent of interracial marriages
were between black and white women and men. This percent decreases
to 21.9 in 1990; however, in 1980 the rate was 25.6 percent of interracial
unions were black and white women and men. These findings were surprising
since the percent of interracial unions decreased in 1990. Of these
black/white marriages, in 1998, 63.6 percent of the couples consisted of
a black husband and a white wife. In 1990, 71.1 percent of husbands
were black compared to 73.1 percent in 1980.
Acceptance of Interracial
Marriage
There have
been many studies devoted to the attitudes and acceptance of interracial
marriage. The increase in interracial unions has conjured up many
positive and negative beliefs throughout black and white communities.
Although interracial relationships has caused racism to decline, many black
and white individuals feel it has increased racial distances due to the
negative stereotypes that surround the couples. Both black and white
communities share various opinions on this topic, as well as families of
individuals who are in interracial relationships. It is imperative
to study black, white and family acceptance of interracial marriage in
order to gain an understanding of all the positive and negative aspects
surrounding this issue (Qian, 1999).
Black Acceptance
Researcher Mwamwenda (1998) devoted two studies to African college students
and their attitudes toward interracial relationships and marriage.
In response to having an intimate relationship with a white individual
of the opposite sex, Mwamwenda found black women to be more reluctant to
date outside of her race. Black men however, found the race of his
girlfriend to be insignificant. Most of the college students in this
study agreed to marrying a person of their race, and the majority of the
students felt family preference was a huge factor in their decision.
In contrast to this study, many researchers have found black individuals
to be more accepting of interracial relationships and marriage than white
individuals. This may be due to the fact as a minority, black individuals
are sometimes pressured into seeking relationships with white individuals
(Mills, Daly, Longmore, & Kilbride, 1994). Within the black community,
however, women have been found to disagree more with interracial marriage
than men. Researchers Paset and Taylor (1991) studied black and white
college women and their attitudes toward interracial marriage. Their
results proved their hypothesis that black women see interracial relationships
of black men and white women as a threat to their personal and community
well being.
Todd, McKinney, Harris,
Chadderton, and Small (1992) did a similar study, and their findings were
almost identical to the previous study. Black women were found to
be the most negative group in the study since almost half of the female
participants disagreed with interracial dating and marriage. These
women held traditional values and felt that dating and marrying outside
their race was perceived as a "let down." They also resented the
competition of white women dating black men since they felt their minority
group has a lack of available partners.
White Acceptance
The rate of
interracial marriage for whites has increased over the past two decades.
Eighty-two percent of white men were more likely to wed black women in
the nineties as compared to the eighties. Moreover, thirty-two percent
of white women were more likely to marry a black man within the same time
period. These rates can be associated with educational attainment
of both white men and women (Qian, 1996).
It has been found that a white man's education is not associated with his
likelihood of marrying a black women. However, white men who have
reached high educational levels are more inclined to marry Asian women
than black women. Furthermore, there is a decline in interracial
marriage for white women when high educational levels have been obtained.
A white woman who has a college degree is forty-two percent less likely
to wed a black man, however, she is 374 percent more likely to wed an Asian
man (Qian, 1999).
Family Acceptance
Interracial
marriage is more likely to occur in families who accept the union.
Men and women who have traditional family values may be less likely to
be involved in these relationships. Overall, it has been proven that
white families have a more negative acceptance toward interracial couples
than black families. This can be due to social conditioning and stereotypical
attitudes held by these traditional families (Mills, Daly, Longmore, &
Kilbride, 1994).
Individuals who find themselves stepping outside of their race when looking
for a relationship, rate themselves as being more independent and assertive
than those who do not accept interracial relationships. These same
individuals, regardless of their own race, described themselves as "able
to get their own way." Family acceptance for these interracial couples
does not have a strong impact on the decisions they made. Instead,
these individuals found themselves to be their own person, as well as persuasive
and powerful (Todd, McKinney, Harris, Chadderton, & Small, 1992).
Conclusion
Interracial marriages are extremely important to study since the rate of
such unions continues to increase. When adolescents and young adults
develop these types of relationships, it is imperative that they have support
and understanding from family and friends. Although racism has declined
as a result of interracial relationships, it is still difficult to find
full acceptance on this issue. Looking at the statistics and various
studies on interracial marriage and dating, one can begin to understand
and view these unions as acceptable.
Prejudices due to social conditioning and strong stereotypes are barriers
to interracial relationships. It is indeed true that traditional
family attitudes act as a threat to interracial unions. When someone
is raised in a household where this type of relationship is absolutely
forbidden, it is difficult for that person to even seek interracial friendships.
Favorable attitudes toward interracial friendships and relationships will
make the transition from adolescence to young adulthood much easier.
Holding prejudices and stereotypes do not help the adolescent expand their
relationships, in fact, the adolescent is being held back to meeting new
people and following their hearts (Mills, Daly, Longmore, & Kilbride,
1994). Through time and as interracial relationships become more
accepting, these statistics will indeed increase and make it easier for
adolescents and young adults to maintain these types of relationships.