Interracial Marriages
Interracial marriages are more
accepted in today’s society than any other society. Even though America
is more accepting of interracial marriages there are other cultures that
do not approve of this. One culture that is not completely accepting
of interracial marriages is India. Nonetheless, India has a different
meaning of interracial marriages. They call this inter caste marriages.
Inter caste means that there is a of mix caste systems. A caste system
is consisted of two main factors, socieo-economic status, and religion.
The Caste System
In India a persons caste status is based upon ties of kinship (Seymour,
1999). In India individuals inherit from their fathers their status
within a localized kinship based caste group (Seymour, 1999). This
means that if your father is rich and powerful than you will become rich
and powerful if you stay in the caste system. In addition, if your
father is not rich and powerful you will not become rich and powerful.
In India they have a class system which is consisted of five classes: Brahmins,
Kshatriyas, Vaishyas, Shudras, and Untouchables. The Brahmins are
considered the highest class and the Untouchables are the lowest class.
Marriage
In India the family, not the couple, usually decides marriage. There
are many negotiations that go on between the two families like bride price
and dowry. The start of the wedding means that the negotiations are
through. In most cases the couples have rarely met before.
This marriage is commonly not a marriage of choice and love, but to extend
kinship for the two families.
The female has many sacrifices to make when she marries. She now
has to dedicate her life to her husband and children. She has to
put her needs second and her families needs first. The age females
tend to get married is early adolescence (Seymour 1999). Males tend
to be several years older, and more educated than females. In India
a man stated that, “American girls have too much independence. A
girl should marry young, before she has a chance to develop independent
ideas” (Seymour 1999). In India once females are married and have
children this is an indication of satisfaction.
Traditions
Children are brought up to respect
their parents. This is very important for females due to the fact
that
their parents pick their husbands. Therefore females are raised
to trust and honor their parent’s decision under any circumstance.
Once married, females are expected to move in with their husband’s and
their families. Females and males are both taught that the male would
inherit and take over the father’s possessions. The male will also
follow in his father’s footsteps by learning the same trade of his father.
The Transition into Adulthood
Adolescents in India very rarely get to explore their own interest.
They are rarely allowed to date, unless it is in a public place and they
are being viewed. In addition, it is possible to be married before
a first kiss. Their life is predetermined for them when they are born.
Since their spouse is chosen for them at a very early age, by family status
and religion. In India many life decisions are previously made for
adolescents. Adolescents are unable to explore their own ideas.
They are faced with foreclosure identity. This means that they pursue whatever
goals their parents want them to pursue. They do not go after their
own goals and expectations.
Changes in India
Although intercaste marriages are not common in India it is not illegal.
This was granted by the Special Marriage Act of 1872 (Good, 1970).
The Special Marriage Act permits marriage outside caste, if the individual
asserted that he had no religion or cast (Good, 1970). Many people
do marry within their own caste because of family expectations. As
long as this law exists, people have the choice of marring outside of their
caste system.
Many changes are happening in India. The roles and lives of women
are being transformed (Seymour 1999). Girls are now being sent to
school because men want more educated wives. However, arranged marriages,
same caste marriages, and dowry are still involved in this culture.
As a result, changes are happening and this can have a major impact on
adolescents in India.